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Monday, September 05, 2005 Had a peaceful Sunday. But it was a total opposite the day before.I had one of the worst Saturdays ever. It went pretty well in the day, coming to work half-day & going to my Grandma's place in the afternoon. At night, I joined a couple of my friends at this cafe which was celebrating its launch. It started off quite well, the music, booze & crowd. One of our friends got "hot & heavy" with this girl he just knew there. Apparently, both of them had a drop too many & were all over each other - dancing, hugging, etc. Anyway much later, I thought I saw the girl talking rather closely with another guy outside the cafe & casually told 2 other guy friends about it, that perhaps our friend is hitting on the wrong girl cuz she might have a boyfriend. And as what good friends or buddies would do, the guys went in to inform our dear friend, just in case trouble ensues. And what happened next was totally absurd. Our friend went mad at us for stopping him from having fun. And he started acting like a spoilt brat...he grabbed his stuff & stomped off to his office which was a few doors away from the cafe. We went after him into the office & right then & there, we were accused of & berated for spoiling & ruining his fun. And he told us that he love the girl & he's falling in love. Hello??!!! Who on earth fall in love with someone you've only met, and what's more in a drunken stupor! More like LUST at first sight. For someone who has never lost her temper in front of her friends, I don't know what came over me but I started yelling at him at the top of my voice & cried (I cry when I am very very angry or mad...God knows why) & stomped off after that, slamming the door after me. Thank goodness, the door didn't break. From then, the night of fun was ruined. We knew our friend was feeling stressed & didn't mean to flare up at us, but we couldn't understand why he did that to us. However, the day after, he apologized. Well, from this incident I've learnt a few things. 1) Kindness never pays 2) Booze is bad (not that I just got to know it, but just want to reaffirm the fact) 3) Anger makes one do unbelievable things 4) Women...sometimes we are the cause of problem (I can't deny it) but guys can't do without us, haha. And there's no such thing as love at first sight. Read yesterday's Sunday Times Lifestyle & there was an article on Love at First Sight with real life examples...but really, it's rare to hit the bull's eye of love with just one shot. In it I agree with the following statements: Quote- There is a fine line between feeling "attracted" and feeling "love". You can be attracted to a person's looks, the way he carries himself, the way he speaks and smiles. But you cannot 'love' him without knowing his personality, qualities, interests and aspirations - Unquote. So how can my dear friend fall out with us just cuz he thought he is falling in love with someone he had just met in a drunken state? Guys...I don't know what they're thinking sometimes. *sigh* |
